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Love focuses attention. When you really love something, you are
naturally pouring your interest and appreciation toward the object of
your love. The driving core of this concern and care, on an
electro-magnetic level, is creative life force. As our love flows toward
the object of our love, the object is filled with our vital
energy, enthusiasm and joy. This
energetic connection to the object magnetically pulls the object
into our sphere of experience. We attract that which we love. It becomes created within our world.
I love the humor of Sid Caesar, one of our
culture’s most
talented and observant comedians. I especially enjoyed the wild and
batty characters he presented on his television show in the 1950s. One
of my favorite caricatures was called “The Professor.”
An exuberant, pompous man, The
Professor pontificated in an
exaggerated, self-absorbed way about scholarly subjects, using
long words, complex phrases and
complicated logic. In taking these qualities to the extreme and
the absurd, Sid Caesar helped me to release the frustration and
impatience of a lifetime of having to
listen to people just like The Professor: my father, athletic
coaches, countless school teachers, and many other authorities and
experts.
It was almost time to break for lunch at a workshop I was
conducting in New York City. To illustrate a certain point, I was
describing to the group a particular bit of shtick Sid Caesar had done
in the early days of television.
Playing The Professor, he lectured verbosely about his subject,
as usual, using convoluted sentences and ridiculous reasoning. As he
built up to a dramatic climax and was just about to make his main point,
his tie—rigid and stiff—would flip up into his face. Each and every time
the tie unceremoniously interrupted his presentation, the studio
audience broke into gales of laugher. Knowing his tie was going to snap
up in his face every time The Professor built to a crescendo, I laughed
in anticipation along with the audience. We couldn’t wait for that tie
to flip up into his face again. The more arrogant and pompous The
Professor became, the more we anticipated his forthcoming humiliation.
There was also a mild sexual undertone to the skit which, while never
discussed, was always present in regards to the rigid, erect tie.
With unbounded respect and admiration for the humor of
Sid Caesar, I acted out the skit for
the group. To our shared delight, I was able to demonstrate the
hilarity of The Professor, as well as
convey the keen insight into human nature Sid Caesar possessed.
My good buddy and co-presenter Tobias was in the class. He grew up in
Sweden and had never heard of Sid Caesar. My loving re-enactment stirred
an acute curiosity in Tobias to know more about this icon of American
comedy. The rest of the participants in
the gathering had been raised on
American television. Lunch forgotten for the moment, members of
the group began to share their own fond memories of the beloved comedian
with Tobias. Like me, several people even acted out their favorite
routines. It ended up being a Sid Caesar “Love-In” as people remembered
how much they looked forward to his
performances on The Ed Sullivan
Show and how much they treasured his talent and comedy.
We finally broke for lunch. Tobias and I
decided to eat our
meal in Central Park. As the elevator made its way to the main floor,
Tobias mused aloud, “You know, I’d really like to meet this guy, Sid
Caesar.”
I
replied nonchalantly, “He probably lives in Hollywood, and I’m not even
sure if he’s still alive.”
With an air of uncommon determination, Tobias countered,
“No, I really must meet him. He
sounds like a unique and wonderful man.”
Then, as we crossed the street bordering Central Park, I saw a stately
gentleman coming toward us who looked exactly like Sid Caesar! I
couldn’t believe my eyes. He appeared older than I remembered Mr.
Caesar, but he bore an uncanny resemblance to the comedian. I whispered
to Tobias, “You know, that man looks just like Sid Caesar.
Peering closely at the man approaching us, my friend—who had
never seen Mr. Caesar in person or on television—pronounced in no
uncertain terms, “He is Sid Caesar. I can tell.”
“No, it couldn’t be,” I responded incredulously.
Tobias’ solution was to find out for sure. We walked over to the
stranger. Tobias introduced himself as being from Sweden. He
asked the gentleman if he was Sid Caesar. Sure enough, he was! Not
only did he not mind identifying himself, but Mr. Caesar was
very willing to spend some time
chatting animatedly with us. What a treat.
For ten minutes, we listened to jokes and stories, enjoying the
man who was the same funny, friendly being we’d all talked about before
lunch. Tobias’ wish was granted. He met Sid Caesar and experienced
firsthand the joy, warmth, openness and humor of this extraordinarily
gifted man.
Like vibration creates like vibration by attracting that which
exists on the same wavelength or frequency. The vibration of our
love pulled to it the object of our
love. The affection and admiration we had poured into the
personage of Sid Caesar vibrationally attracted his very real spirit to
meet us in Central Park. What a magical and wondrous universe we live
in!
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This story is an excerpt from Keith’s latest book “Inner
Coach: Outer Power” |