To awaken it helps to see the difference between 

Soul & Personality:
 

The soul plays in the visible and invisible worlds.

The personality confines itself to sight, sound, smell, taste and touch.

The soul looks for similarity, connection and synchronicity.

The personality looks for difference, division and coincidence. 

The soul focuses on unity, compassion and joy.

The personality focuses on separation, fear and regret. 

The goals of the soul are harmony, cooperation and understanding.

The personality’s agenda is conflict, competition and chaos. 

The soul is into joy, ease and freedom.

The personality thrives on drama, trauma and karma.